Relational · Strength-Based · Practical

Success Counseling

A framework for the one-on-one moment when a camper is struggling, dysregulated, or off track.

At a Glance

Success Counseling is a Tier 1 skill set for the individual moment, the conversation that happens when a camper needs to be pulled aside, redirected, or reconnected. It gives staff a concrete framework for navigating those moments well, from the initial approach through the conversation itself to leaving with the relationship intact and the behavior addressed.

Staff leave with a set of practices they can use with any camper in any situation.

THE PROBLEM

Every staff member eventually has to pull a camper aside. This training is about what happens in that conversation.

The individual moment with a camper, the conversation that happens when something has gone wrong, is one of the least taught skills in camp staff training. Without a framework, staff tend to either avoid those conversations or rush through them. Both patterns leave the camper without what they needed from the interaction and the behavior unaddressed.

A staff member with a clear framework for the individual moment handles it differently, and the campers in their group experience that difference across the whole summer.

WHAT’S INSIDE

4 Core Modules

The Story Behind the Behavior

Behavior makes sense in context. This module gives staff a framework for understanding what a camper’s behavior is communicating before they respond to it. That understanding changes the quality of the conversation that follows.

A lens for reading behavior that improves every one-on-one interaction

The 5 Questions

The core of Success Counseling is a five-question protocol that walks a camper from where they are to where they need to be. What do you want? What are you doing to get it? Is it working? What are your other options? How are you going to follow through? Staff learn each question, why it comes in that order, and what to do when a camper gets stuck.

: A concrete protocol staff can use in any one-on-one moment

Practice Rounds

Staff see the protocol modeled first, then practice it themselves in groups of three, rotating through the roles of counselor, camper, and observer. Repetition before the summer starts is what makes the protocol usable under pressure.

Multiple rounds of practice before the protocol is needed

When It’s Not Working

What to do when the one-on-one conversation isn’t gaining ground. How to escalate thoughtfully, loop in leadership, and stay connected to the camper in the process.

A clear escalation path that keeps the relationship intact

WHO IT’S FOR

Anyone Working Directly With Campers

NEW COUNSELORS

ACTIVITY SPECIALISTS

JUNIOR COUNSELORS

RETURNING COUNSELORS

TRIP STAFF

GROUP LEADERS

CITS

Designed for frontline staff at any experience level. Works well during orientation as a core skill-building session, and equally well mid-season when staff have specific situations in mind. Leadership staff often attend to build a shared framework for how the team approaches individual camper conversations.

FORMAT & LOGISTICS

What to Expect

1 - 2 Hours

Depends on amount of practice and discussion built in.

DURATION

DELIVERY

In-Person or Remote

Available on-site at your camp or virtually. Both formats are fully interactive, not just a slideshow.

TIMING

Training or Mid-Season

Works as a standalone session or as part of a larger behavior management track.

WHAT PARTICIPANTS WALK AWAY WITH

  • A framework for understanding what a camper’s behavior is communicating

  • The five-question Success Counseling protocol and how to use it

  • Multiple rounds of practiced application before the summer starts

  • A clear escalation path for when individual conversations aren’t gaining ground

PAIRS WELL WITH

Build a Full Training Track

STAFF TRAINING · BEHAVIOR MANAGEMENT

The Consequences Playbook

Consequences and relationships work together. This pairing gives staff both sides of the picture.

LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT · CAMPER BEHAVIOR SYSTEMS

Beyond Sticker Charts

The organizational system that creates the structure for Success Counseling to happen consistently. The continuum determines when a one-on-one conversation is needed.

STAFF TRAINING · BEHAVIOR MANAGEMENT

Classroom Management at Camp

The foundational training that sets up the behavior management context this one builds on.

LET’S WORK TOGETHER

Bring This To Your Camp

Tell us a little about your organization and what you're looking for. We'll get back to you within 48 hours to talk through the details, customize the content for your context, and figure out what works for your budget and timeline.

Prefer to reach out directly?
jarod@thrivepointstudio.com